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The early
years
Antonieta Bastos de Lima
Domínio Feminino/2001
Translated
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Unhappyly it does
not occur of a fiancé to think about the future of
its daily after-marriage. As well as it does not occur to
the boyfriends to be thought compromissados. For the boyfriends
a thing is a thing another thing is another thing. Still
well! Or not... as they say the two great names of the MPB
( Brazilian pop music ).
It says it of
who knows the path because still it covers it, is so valid
how much of a specialist psy. Perhaps the good one either
this exactly: experience and same experience that the optics
vary, or exist variable, in this field as in any another
one.
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to see ideas here on as to anticipate it the future.
The first years
of joint life, thus, the two first years. A first year of
conjugal life is a bar and goes until the way it following
year, or either it according to year
In the first times,
he is half as to be chacoalhando the daily habits, the crazes,
customs one of the other. It is time of terrible discoveries:
it it rolls the tooth folder, it is all, a craze of arrumadinho.
Or the the opposite and the woman go to uncover themselves
how much he seemed arrumadinha, organized. Hum, hum...
The skill of it
to chew the food, to handle the places setting to the table,
for example, can be discovered desanimdoras, at the very
least. The use of the sanitary vase, and you starts to have,
every day, a good reason to speak excessively or to be silent
and to be with a unfortunate person face; ah, this bush.
This without speaking in the blanket that goes to lack for
one of the two, in a night of very cold.
haste of it when
leaving house, and the kiss that you go to find that it
cuspiu. The relation could be extensive.
It occurs that
these times are times where the couple if discovers individuals,
human beings, half-naked of the idealizações.
Half-undressed, it was not said in nakeds. After all the
veil already was removed of the face of the fiancé,
nothing more than lenses soft, at least not so soft and
walks in route the biggest clearness of the contours of
the personalities.
Many times, can
occur of you if ask, in the pasmaceira greater, where you
it was and where you it walked that not it had seen the
horroroso skill of it to chew or to lead food to the mouth.
It is, because it can occur of you to photograph sujeitinho
taking the mouth to the food, as an esteem little pig. These
occurrences go to be stronger for account of the time of
the TPM and you it will be as > > says raper Shawlin
< < living the T endência P sicopata in M being.
Later, pregnant
woman, worsening. God, as worsening. From there because
it is good for going thinking and discovering that he does
not only happen with you. He seems that not, but to know
that he is not only with the people that this aid occurs
significantly already.
For the side of
it, coitado, goes to be many, the discoveries. The bathroom
also will be able to bother it more of the one than to you.
Its played absorbents in the trash collector of the bathroom,
despudoradamente -- it is thus that the head of it goes
to read and is truth that you are proceeding thus -- unhygienic.
You, without cares, changing the absorbent, seated to the
sanitary vase, using duchinha. Erg! It does not play with
this; e without wanting to make mood: it has so sensible
man that he loses the tesão after observing a picture
of these. You think that woman some makes this? He believes
that he has!
If we said that
you it would have, when leaving the bed, after the sexual
relation — prevents the bed as meeting point; rolled in
a sheet, you it goes to argue that this already was. It
was not, not. The marriage is a state of perpetual seduction,
my good. If to lack seduction, (a)cabou. Use the sheet even
for charm and with charm; with the time you get used of
such form that he will make this of course. Now, the legal
one is in, time for another one not to cover itself. To
hide to show e to show to hide. It seems all artificial
one and it goes to be, you do not only go to seem, if not
to understand that (the its characteristic) game of the
seduction was what it made with that it adored the choice
that you made. The woman chose the husband but she needed
that it this its consent. When one does not want, exactly,
two does not marry.
After this bus
chacoalhando to accomodate the passengers, who in the case
are the individual imperfections, the colors of the landscapes
goes assuming percentile of mixtures in the primary tones;
nor so solid nor so diluted. It is all normal, good one
of being lived. E this is normal between couples. The imperfections
of before complement and become what it must be: personal
features.
More or less for
there, this fragility of the relation just-initiate who
in the weddings is represented by symbols of much fragility
such as the paper, cotton, perishable, etc. Everything is
very passível of esgarçar or to tear, to knead
and for go there
Therefore, my
friend, uses to advantage to think about the daily one of
its relation, good before consummating it, and trying to
prevent the confrontations. She delights myself with these
times where you and the maridão they can put in bag
ones roupinhas close, few clothes changes and if to order
for the road; it uses to advantage to leave without destination,
to the night or at any time, when it will be possible, and
to decide in the way it path, if vocês only goes supper
or to eat a big-any-thing-delicious one. Leaves to choose
it to the little one time. E if happens different, it has
beaten the foot -- only as expression -- and says that,
of this time, the choice will be its
When you to commemorate
its weddings in the times of the precious materials, egg
yolks, of metals, it will know the reason of the symbolic
representation. I preseated myself therefore. With certainty,
if you to arrive there, the merit is, possibly, all its.
E this is said without the lesser shade of feminism, is
a constatação that you will make.
Antonieta
Bastos de Lima / Domínio Feminino
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